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Bringing
home a new puppy is certainly fun, but it also brings new challenges.
Here are a few tips to help you successfully master the most common
situations.
The Biggie: Housetraining
Until he's about 3 months old, your puppy has to relieve himself quite
frequently. If you're not quite sure how to go about housetraining him, this
might not bode well for your carpet. Understanding a few important factors can
make for a much speedier and easier housetraining process.
Timing is everything.
Your young puppy will probably need to "go" right after eating or
playing, right after waking up, and approximately every two hours during the
day. Be prepared to walk him promptly at these times, before he has the chance
to make a "mistake" in the house.
Remember, keeping your puppy on a
regular schedule of meals and walks will make housetraining easier for both of
you.
Here's a tip: Don't end the walk abruptly
as soon as he relieves himself. This teaches him that relieving himself ends the
fun outing---and he may figure out that "holding it" will result in
more time spent outside!
Always
let your pup know when he's been good.
On your walks, praise him lavishly (for example, say "Good puppy! Good
puppy!" in a happy voice) as soon as he eliminates. The basis of speedy,
easy puppy training is clear and immediate communication on your part.
Use the same simple words and
phrases to mean certain things. Don't expect your puppy to understand long,
rambling sentences. Tone of voice is important, too. Your puppy will learn more
quickly that "good boy" means you're pleased with what he's done if
the words are said cheerfully.
A watchful eye is key. Watch your
puppy every minute that he's loose inside your home. If you notice him acting
like he's about to eliminate, say "no" right away in a stern but calm
voice, quickly take him out, then praise him when he relieves himself outside.
Think of it this way: Every
mistake your puppy makes in the house is a step backward in his
housetraining---and every time he relieves himself outside, it's a step forward.
Never give "delayed
punishment." You should
never
punish your puppy for mistakes he made in the house when your weren't watching.
As with all training, the feedback that's communicated to your puppy---whether
positive or negative---must always coincide with or immediately follow the
puppy's action. This allows him to make a clear connection between the action
and the feedback it causes, ensuring speedier learning.
If you were to punish your puppy
hours afterwards for a mistake he made in the house, he would probably hang his
head and look sad while you admonished him. Many people who see their puppy act
this way in such a situation think he is "acting guilty," and
therefore they think he understands what he did wrong. But all this behavior
really means is that the puppy knows, because of the owner's tone of voice and
body language, that the person is angry and upset. It doesn't mean he
understands why.
Punishing a puppy for reasons he
doesn't understand will leave him only confused and unhappy. This will lessen
his trust in you and damage the bond that is developing between the two of you,
and it will surely slow the housetraining process.
Provide your pup with his own
special place. Finally, until
he is completely housetrained, it is most important to never let your puppy have
the run of the house unattended. Have him stay in a confined area---a part of
the kitchen, fenced off with a baby gate, perhaps, or (ideally) a roomy crate or
"den"---anytime you're not watching him. A puppy is naturally less
likely to relieve himself in a confined space. Because of this instinct, he's
more likely to wait until it's time for his next walk.
Something to Chew On
Because of the new teeth developing in his jaws, your young puppy has a very
strong urge to chew on things. In fact, he needs to chew. Like a human baby who
is teething, your puppy chews to help the new teeth emerge through his gums.
Rather than punishing your puppy
repeatedly for chewing on things he finds around the house, give him plenty of
toys that he's allowed to chew, and praise him when he's happily gnawing
on these. Hard nylon chewtoys are an excellent choice.
Some objects, such as sharp
fragments of cooked poultry or pork bones from the dinner table, can spell
serious tummy trouble. The best bets are durable chewtoys equipped with a recess
for hiding bits of dry dog food. These toys keep your puppy entertained and busy
for hours.
Still, be sure to stow valuable
or dangerous items, electrical cords, and your best pair of shoes out of harm's
way.
Digging It
Puppies and dogs dig for different reasons. Some dig to make a cozy bed, and
some dig for the pure joy of it. (Ever seen a kid having fun with a pail and
shovel at the beach? You get the idea.) But trainers say that probably the most
common reason for digging is that the dog is bored and lonely. So an important
first step is to prevent boredom and loneliness.
Your puppy needs companionship.
If he's left alone in a yard all day with nothing to do, he's sure to be
unhappy---and he might turn to digging for comfort. If you have to be away for
most of the day, see that he has company for at least several short periods
during that time. Have a neighbor or pet-sitter come over for play visits or to
take him for walks. Provide him with plenty of toys that will keep him safely
occupied.
If he still delights in making
holes in the lawn, you can even create his own special digging area in a corner
of the yard. By burying a few of his toys there and making a fun game of it, you
can teach him that it's OK for him to practice his earthmoving skills in this
special place.
Jumping Up for Joy
It's perfectly natural for your puppy to jump up in excitement and put his paws
up on you as he greets you (and other people). After all, he's happy to see you!
But although this is cute when he does it now, it might not be quite so cute
when he's grown up---especially if he's a large breed, such as a retriever. Two
things can help ensure that as an adult he won't make a habit of "saying
hello" with his muddy paws.
Be sure not to encourage your
puppy to put his paws on you. Teach your pup to
greet people calmly right from the start. Rather than punishing him,
teach him to sit whenever you come in the door or when a friend approaches him.
Give him praise or a treat every time he sits, and simply ignore him when
he jumps---this way, he'll figure out pretty quickly which behavior is more
rewarding. He'll soon be sitting every time he sees you coming.
A Final Word
Training your puppy and raising him to be the well-behaved, happy companion
you've hoped for involves a serious commitment of your time, effort and
attention. Just as with raising a child, there may be ups and downs, but sharing
your life with this loving (and loved) family member is all worth it.
If you have questions regarding
your puppy's behavior, don't hesitate to ask your vet or local boarding kennel
to recommend a reputable trainer in your area.
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